What follows is a list of equipment I actually use. There might be better stuff out there, but, this is what I use.
Find these items at your local homebrew store like Artisan Homebrew.
Where possible I have included links to Amazon or other online stores.
~The Complete Joy of Home Brewing
~BeerSmith Brewing Software
~7 gal. Brew Pot (bought at BJ's wholesale for less than $40)
~Taylor Digital Cooking Thermometer/Timer
~Mesh Bags for Steeping Grain
~Digital Kitchen Scales
~Oxo Good Grips Medium Silicone Spatula
~Triple Scale Hydrometer
~Auto Siphon Pump for Beer or Wine
~Better Bottle Fermenter, 5-Gallon PET Container
~6.5 Gallon Bottling Bucket
~Vinyl Tubing - 10 feet 5/16 ID - 7/16 OD (Food Grade)
~5 Gallon Glass Carboy For Beer or Wine Making
~Plastic Picnic Faucet for Beer
~Faucet and 4" shank
~Bayou Classic KAB4 High Pressure Banjo Cooker
~Beer or Wine Carboy Hauler
~Silent-Master Interlocking Heavy-Duty Dolly (330 Lbs. Max)